{"id":2282,"date":"2020-10-07T14:51:54","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T14:51:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bernardo-moya.com\/?p=2282"},"modified":"2020-10-08T03:18:49","modified_gmt":"2020-10-08T03:18:49","slug":"establish-our-own-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bernardo-moya.com\/es\/establish-our-own-reality\/","title":{"rendered":"The Need to Establish Our Own Reality"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"The Need to Establish Our Own Reality | Bernardo Moya | Rise To The Top\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/vYBiN-FrORU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I was sharing in a video recently about they thought I was mad, which was the whole idea around The Best You Expo.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I had this concept, this idea of getting experts, leaders, thought-provoking leaders to get together with people that are seeking, looking for answers, because people in the personal\/professional growth are very, very generous. But everyone is very niche, and I wanted to be anti-niche because I think wellbeing has to be broad. I wanted families to come along. I wanted anyone and everyone to be there. This first event was a challenge. I remember I didn&#8217;t sleep for four months because there was so many\u2026 We had six breakout rooms. We had 55 speakers. There was a lot of logistics, but also getting the people in. I remember the first day I went out to see how we were doing when the event started, and there was literally six people in the queue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I wanted to die. I wanted to die. <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>And I thought, &#8220;Oh, my God. What am I going to do?&#8221; The joke is I was thinking, &#8220;Can I go to the bar? It&#8217;s too early,&#8221; I thought. I was only joking. But the fact is that I was so scared. But anyway, the show grew, and we went from three to six to 12 to 14-and a-half thousand people. That&#8217;s what happened, is last year I went to London. I had no idea how many people are going to show up because you never know. I literally walked out, and I couldn&#8217;t see the end of the queue. So I had to walk on the other side of the street, and I still couldn&#8217;t see the end of the queue. There were at least 2,000 people waiting, and I remember it was such a beautiful moment. But I got so nervous. I didn&#8217;t even photograph it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So the reason I&#8217;m sharing this is that at the end of the day, you have to establish what your own reality is. You have to establish what is possible and isn&#8217;t possible, and don&#8217;t let anyone, don&#8217;t let anyone tell you that you&#8217;re mad. That&#8217;s what happened. My event manager said to me, &#8220;Bernardo. Bernardo.&#8221; When we finished that first event, she said to me in that first day. She said, &#8220;Bernardo, you have to be realistic.&#8221; And the answer, my answer to hers, was that we all establish our own reality. So you establish yours. 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